tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4117341923751897912.post8375726598721385157..comments2024-03-23T08:10:05.563-04:00Comments on Random Thoughts From A Random Guy: theEx and Jackass returnJeff Lawshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14325109853869480569noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4117341923751897912.post-46283648410584981302014-10-25T14:08:58.964-04:002014-10-25T14:08:58.964-04:00Shouldn't have to and being court ordered are ...Shouldn't have to and being court ordered are 2 different things. They have to be 14 for the court to even consider their opinions which neither are. We've suggested a sit down but nobody else wants to do it.<br /><br />I added your new blog to my Feedly so I'll read it.Jeff Lawshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14325109853869480569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4117341923751897912.post-91591164534980321782014-10-25T13:01:57.411-04:002014-10-25T13:01:57.411-04:00If they are not comfortable or feel threatened the...If they are not comfortable or feel threatened then they shouldnt have to go, and if Samantha is told she can come but not allowed to bring her phone then there is a problem.<br /><br />It's a tough one Buddy, been there done that and no matter what, just do as you are and keep your kids safe, a sit down with everyone involved in a neutral place like a public restaurant would be a good way to get all the cards on the table.<br /><br />Getting off the subject here I have a new address for my blog, http://jimsop.blogspot.com/ , drop by and follow along again if you like. <a href="http://jimsop.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Jimmys Opinion</a><br>Jimmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00079471254681821763noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4117341923751897912.post-53004480905104081622014-10-23T17:46:28.210-04:002014-10-23T17:46:28.210-04:00I'm lucky to even have custody, even as a crap...I'm lucky to even have custody, even as a crappy parent she is, if she came after custody I would probably lose them because she is their mother. In the courts eyes, all father's are deadbeats.Jeff Lawshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14325109853869480569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4117341923751897912.post-21595643767141163752014-10-22T23:34:10.514-04:002014-10-22T23:34:10.514-04:00That is crazy! Kids should be able to say whether ...That is crazy! Kids should be able to say whether they want to spend time there or not. I have legal guardianship of my grandchildren and they don't want to see their parents at all and the parents are not kicking up a fuss of any kind. Guess I am lucky therePaulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17406717262345866373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4117341923751897912.post-697811482941374722014-10-22T19:46:43.136-04:002014-10-22T19:46:43.136-04:00State law requires me to give her a minimum of eve...State law requires me to give her a minimum of every other weekend and one day during the week unless I can prove her unfit which is damn near impossible. They won't consider listening to the kids until they are 14.Jeff Lawshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14325109853869480569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4117341923751897912.post-15997487126246436542014-10-22T14:38:08.182-04:002014-10-22T14:38:08.182-04:00Can you not completely stop the visits?? Maybe the...Can you not completely stop the visits?? Maybe the kids need you to make this decision for them. Or are they court ordered?Paulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17406717262345866373noreply@blogger.com